The "we think you're cool" response isn't planning to cut it here, women.
And when, when you've asked the question and probed much deeper, you recognize their emotions you need to not be there, too for you don't run very deep— that he's just not there—then.
Pump the brake system from him the things that you think are important to hear and feel from a man with whom you're willing to forge a relationship until you start hearing and feeling.
We guys are completely mindful that we need to respond to these ques¬tions, and any man that is real planning to respond to them. You might not always just like the responses, but he will respond to them. Then don't bother with him if he refuses. Don't believe that you are likely to work it down later—that you will wait him away until he gets much more comfortable with you—because that could be noth¬ing a lot more than blind hope.Read more
