Agreed, it is all about the context associated with situation and environment.
Your ex partner was the BESTFRIEND of ole guy.
I am sorry but he is the EX now right?? I will be having a difficult time thinking your ex partner ended up being cool with knowing you was at an informal /just physical (fwb/jumpoff) kind situation along with his bestfriend.
I’ve brothers and nephews that are fast to dead a chic or compose her down as solely A TOSS if she has been with one of is own boyz NOT BESTFRIENDS but simply their homies prior.
Well it’s in contrast to she meet up with the guys inner circle. The only she had been simply finding pleasure in held it low and casual so just why would he introduce her into the team if he had been’nt serious about her (not in a negative method maybe she ended up being’nt feeling him like taht and cut ties also).
It looks like her ex solo of their team as soon as he had been experiencing her she was introduced by him to their buddies plus they learned. In that sort of situation often you merely need to ignore it and allow your man’s be happy. I’m certain her ex had some milfs in heels casual “friends” he hung away with before her.
Hey smilez_920, thank you for comprehending the situation. Like we said Melyssa, he was cool, everyone had been cool! I really was the one that is only cool with it to start with ahahah! And yeah the factors why he is my ex currently have next to nothing to do with it!
We violated the rule as a teenager. Defintely won’t be saying that move.
I mightn’t date the friends/relatives of an ex. Associates are FAIR GAME though.
For me personally this “rule” just pertains to chicks my buddies have experienced severe relationships with. Then its free to me if its just a chick that you were seeing a little bit and ya’ll called it off. I may clear it I don’t feel obligated to with you but.
We do not store nonsense from highschool like some females do. My present post My 2012 gaming 12 months in review
Lol ladies are’nt waiting on hold to senior school boyfriends unlessed they never ever moved out of their hometown, which must have only a populace of 1,000 ppl if their 30 holing on with their 9th grade bf.
Concern: could you remain interested if you learned that your particular friend had chex using the women your enthusiastic about even in the event it absolutely was simply casual. Would just how their situation that is causal happened a part?
I’d be fine without him knowing I was interested in her if it happened. Also it be like a “come on man! ” deal but I’ts a good chance I’d blow it off on both ends and see what she is about if he knew. The length of time ago it simply happened performs a right component aswell. My current post My 2012 gaming 12 months in review
I am actually happy I had the BF’s I had. All except one wouldn’t care. And 2520’s do not really care, either. Myself I do not simply because ladies are territorial and have a tendency to think when they’ve had you after they have stake I wouldn’t care if one of my friends dated my ex on you forever, but. We did not work away, so more capacity to you if you’re able to work out how.
Now, i am aware my thinking aren’t provided and I also could not force an individual to fairly share my philosophy, as the choice can be your choice, but i must say i need to challenge the people who are saying it is “nasty, eww, not my woman”. Exactly exactly just What in the event that you marry your ‘pure angel’, she had your son or daughter and your small bro comes home from international responsibility simply to discover she had a torrid summer time event with him in Greece seven years back? Is she nevertheless “nasty”? That you do not want to, fine, you never want to, but that scarlet letter thing is seriously troubling. Everyone is A PERSON’S “sloppy moments”.
Now, I draw the line at ex-wives. The Jackson double baby-momma thing is messy as all hell.
I do believe you will find circumstances whenever dating your pals ex simply is not cool. Are not speaing frankly about high ex. ’s (based on age) university ex. ’s are up for grabs. But being a close buddy why can you knowingly want up to now individuals they have been seriously a part of. An ex spouse, child daddy, severe boyfriend (like they lived together). If you ask me there’s sufficient people on the planet had been you don’t need certainly to chase after a buddies ex that is serious. Now individuals I’ve casually dated or hung away with and things didn’t click are free game. Additionally based on exactly what town your home is in(like if you remained at home city) your bound to wreck havoc on somebody who messed with a person who messed with somebody.
The example you gave is significantly diffent. No body knew. If so the typical is significantly diffent. In my opinion a close friend that will chase behind everybody else I’ve currently dated will likely you will need to get with some body I’m with.
See, i am aware for which you are originating from but that is simply the one thing. No one is “chasing” anyone, it was simply a case of proximity and timing in the majority of times. For instance, Shania Twain. She gets kept by her spouse for her married closest friend (and that’s FOUL as all hell, btw), her bf’s ex-husband assistance each other handle grief…and ultimately dropped in love and got hitched. Very often it is this is the proven fact that you’d one thing in keeping and a familiarity since y’all shared the exact same area many times, definitely not a harmful chase. Now YES, you will find circumstances where your buddy ended up being outright, but those can demonstrably be observed as a result of timing (as with it will be a touch too quickly to be coincidence). For instance, Michelle Salahi & the Journey man.